Thursday, July 27, 2023

MY LOVE LANGUAGE LESSON


Today I contemplated the concept of love languages and it dawned on me that many of my struggles in relationships is the expectation that I have of others. I often find myself expecting the other person to display their love towards me the way I display mine. Looking back now, I missed the other person's display of love. For example my husband loves when I hug him but I am not the hugging type and instead would prefer a long conversation with him either in person or on the phone. I had to learn to hug him more and without request and he has learned to chat with me every morning while we're commuting separately to work.

One of the most important lessons I've learned is to take time to learn and appreciate the love languages of my loved ones. And also when I show them appreciation using their love language they usually return the favor in my love language. 


One Love

Danni

Thursday, July 13, 2023

FIGHTING FOR THOSE MOMENTS



My oldest daughter requested that I lie next to her in bed as she fell asleep. I did think of saying no, which I am sure she would understand. But instead I hugged her until she fell asleep. It's those tiny moments, those little things, that makes life precious. 

I encourage you today to fight for those moments. Work will always be work, and the mundane things that we value as important will always be there. Those precious times with our loved ones, are the moments we never get to repeat, we can have similar experiences, but it's never the same. Determine what those precious, irreplaceable moments are and FIGHT for them.

One Love

Danni

Thursday, July 6, 2023

ALL THAT YOU NEED YOU GOT


Have you ever seen the progress of someone and say to yourself, "if only I had those opportunities I would have been as successfully". Or maybe you say to yourself,  "if God would just grant me this one blessing,  I would make the most of it". Well you are not alone in those thoughts and feelings.  

Here are a few action items to move you closer to your purpose.  

  • First pray for alignment with God's will and purpose for your life. 
  • Remember that all the tools you need you already possess.  
  • Assess your current skills, talents and opportunities and maximize on them. 
  • Work on determining who you want to become in this season.  Grow from what you go through.
  • Pray and ask God for guidance. 
One Love
Danni